It happens to all of us and it’s a part of the human emotional experience. It’s okay to feel upset when she cancels a date. You don’t need to talk yourself out of the feeling you just need to talk yourself out of acting on it. Emotional self-talk doesn’t respond well to rational thought when you are in the heat of the moment. The more dating options you have, the less you’ll care about a flake.īut until you reach that point, if you are in this situation and feel upset, there isn’t really a way to talk yourself out of not feeling upset. You might make her feel guilty and change her mind in the short term, but this type of manipulation will always undermine her attraction for you. No one wants to feel guilt tripped into anything, especially a date, and reacting in a hostile emotional way will always hurt you in the long run. Guys who have options with women aren’t phased by a flake. Don’t respond and leave the message on “read.”.Your response should be casual and nonchalant. The best thing you can do is to show that you aren’t phased by it. Guys often do this by texting something emotionally charged, or demanding an explanation for why she cancelled the date. The worst thing you can do is to show that you are upset or angry. When a girl cancels a date, you may find yourself in a painful situation.
You set up a date, and she either tells you she can’t make it, or cuts off any contact whatsoever aka “ghosts” you. It’s a situation we’ve all been in: you recently met a girl and things seemed to click.
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